Mini-Course — 6 Lessons — ~10 min

Should You Call
That Meeting?

An interactive course on meeting decisions — built to be worked through, not just read. Drag the sliders, answer the questions, check off the list.

Course Objectives

Course Objectives

Meetings are one of the most common — and most misused — tools in the workplace, whether they happen around a table or over video. Think about the last meeting you attended that could have been a three-sentence email.

This course covers how to determine when a meeting is the right call, how to plan it, and what to do when it isn't necessary. You will also learn how to protect your calendar from unproductive incoming invitations.

Video call on a computer monitor

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to:

Lesson 01

The Meeting Multiplier

A single meeting rarely happens just once. See what it adds up to once it becomes a recurring meeting — scheduled to repeat on a regular basis. Depending on your calendar tool, you might see this called "recurring" (Outlook) or "repeat" (Google Calendar) — same idea, different name.

In the activity below, use the slider to set the meeting length — how long the meeting runs, and use the dropdown to select how often it repeats. As you adjust each one, watch the total number of hours change to show how much time a recurring meeting adds up to over a year.

Stack of calendars illustrating recurring meetings
Over one year, this meeting adds up to
26 hours
30
Lesson 02

The Interruption Chain

Once you've decided a meeting is worth having, watch your buffer time when scheduling it: leave enough time between meetings — do not schedule meetings back-to-back. If the meeting right before yours runs long, you will be forced to reschedule — and create a conflict for someone who already planned their calendar around your meeting.

Creating Conflicts for Others

Rescheduling one meeting can sometimes trigger a chain of events. You've seen this happen — one meeting runs long, and suddenly other meetings need to shift too — and someone else usually pays for it.

Click through the scenario below for an example of how rescheduling a meeting can affect someone else.

Falling dominoes representing a chain of rescheduled meetings
The takeaway: None of this had to happen. Leave room between meetings when you can. Back-to-back scheduling means one delay doesn't just cost you time — it costs someone else theirs too.
Lesson 03

Meeting, or Message?

Now let's determine whether you should set a meeting or send a message.

In the activity below, you will be asked three questions. Your answers will help you figure out if a meeting is necessary, so answer honestly.

NOTE: If you are new to terms like "quick sync" or "async" -check the Key Terms below. You may find that most "quick syncs" don't actually need to be a meeting at all — they just feel like they do.

Decision flowchart between calling a meeting or sending a message
Does this require live (real-time) back-and-forth discussion, not just a status check?
Key Terms
Quick Sync: A brief, informal meeting (usually 10–15 minutes) used to align a team or gather updates fast. They are often called on reflex with a simple, "Let's hop on a quick call." The catch: don't let the word "quick" fool you. A 15-minute sync with five people actually burns 75 minutes of collective company time. It also forces everyone to break their focus and stop what they're doing to show up to a live meeting. While these meetings sound harmless, they are often scheduled out of habit without anyone asking if a live discussion is truly necessary.
Sync (Real-time): A live interaction where participants respond in the exact same moment, such as during a face-to-face meeting or a phone call.
Async (No real-time meeting): Send an email, leave comments on a shared document, or post a Teams message. Recipients review and reply on their own schedule or by a specified due date, with no expectation of an immediate response.
Broadcast: A one-way message sent to a group, such as a company announcement. No live or immediate reply is expected from the recipients.
Lesson 04

Meeting Types at a Glance

So you've passed the meeting-or-message test and decided you need to call a meeting. But what kind of meeting? Not every meeting has the same purpose, audience structure, duration and frequency.

Review the table below to see what each meeting type requires, so you don't end up with a brainstorm that runs like a status update (or vice versa).

Meeting TypePurposeAudience — Who's in the RoomDuration & Frequency
Status update iconStatus Update
To share progress, spot project roadblocks early, and make sure everyone is on the same page. The core project team and any cross-functional partners. 15–30 mins
Weekly or bi-weekly
NOTE: If discussion is not needed, cancel the upcoming recurring meeting and send an email.
Decision iconDecision
To review/evaluate available options, specific proposals requiring approval, debate risks, and walk away with a final choice and clear next steps on a specific project or strategy. Key decision-makers, stakeholders, and project owners who can make decisions and provide a formal sign-off. 30–60 mins
As needed per milestone
Brainstorm iconBrainstorm
To rapidly generate as many creative ideas and new solutions as possible for a specific problem or project. The project team, guests from other teams for fresh views, and a facilitator. 45–90 mins
At project kickoffs or pivots
1:1 (Coaching & Feedback)
To help team members grow, give honest feedback, and build a stronger working relationship. A manager and their direct report. 30–50 mins
Weekly or bi-weekly

Scenario Practice

Now that you've learned about the different meeting types, let's see if you can make the right call to determine if a meeting is needed or not.

In the activity below, you will be asked three questions. Select the best response that describes what you would do in that situation.

Person overwhelmed at a cluttered desk
Scenario A
Your team missed a deadline. Leadership wants to know why. Do you...
Three people reviewing a document at a table
Scenario B
Three stakeholders disagree on which vendor to choose, and the deadline is Friday. Do you...
Document with comment bubbles from three people
Scenario C
You want feedback on a doc, and everyone's schedule is packed this week. Do you...
Lesson 05

How to Decline a Meeting (Politely)

We've all been there—your calendar is already packed, and another invite pops up that doesn't really require your presence. Instead of just hitting “decline” or ignoring it, here are some examples you can use when you want to politely decline an invitation:

Person waving to decline a video call while working on a laptop
The SituationHow to Reply
You aren't sure you're needed “I don't think I'm essential for this one, but I'm happy to review the notes afterward if anything needs my input. Feel free to reach out if you need me sooner.”
The topic could be handled over chat/email “Could we try this as a written thread first? If we hit a wall (blocker), I'm glad to hop on a call.”
Your calendar is completely packed “I can't make this time work without dropping something else — could we handle my part over email, or is there a recording or notes I could review instead?”
You're double-booked with a higher priority “I have a scheduling conflict that I can't move, but I want to make sure I don't hold things up. Can you send over the agenda? I can email you my updates before the meeting starts.”
The meeting lacks a clear agenda “I want to make sure I'm fully prepared for this. Do we have an agenda or a specific goal yet? I just want to make sure I'm the best person to add value to the conversation, or if I should loop someone else in.”

What Would You Do?

Imagine you just received an invite for a big brainstorm session. Looking at the attendee list, most of your team is going, and the topic is focused on a project you aren't involved in. Your afternoon is also swamped with a major deadline for your own work. How would you politely decline this meeting invitation?

Select the best response that keeps your afternoon free without appearing disengaged (checked out).

Ultimately, declining a meeting isn't about dodging work — it's about making sure you have the uninterrupted time to actually get your most important tasks done.

Lesson 06

Before You Hit Send

Once you've decided a meeting is necessary, review this checklist before sending the invite.

Clipboard checklist with a pen checking off items

0 of 5 checked

Course Summary

Course Wrap-Up

Meetings serve a purpose but they also cost time and energy, so they shouldn't be your automatic go-to. Before you hit "send" on that next calendar invite, pause for a second and think about what you actually need to accomplish and if there is an easier way to get it done.

When you aren't sure, just ask yourself: Do we need to talk this out live - in a meeting, or is it just an FYI update? If there's a genuine blocker that needs to be discussed, call a meeting. If it's just information that needs to be shared, send it in writing.

Conference room table and chairs with a checkmark

Now that you've completed this module, you have the tools to evaluate when a meeting is necessary and when a message is the better call.

You have learned to:

  • Calculate the total annual cost (in time) of a recurring meeting based on its length and frequency using the Meeting Multiplier tool
  • Analyze how a rescheduled meeting can create a conflict on someone else's calendar
  • Apply the three-question test to determine whether a workplace situation requires a meeting or a message
  • Categorize a meeting's purpose into its correct meeting type — Status Update, Decision, Brainstorm, or 1:1
  • Evaluate real scenarios and decide whether the right call was a meeting or a message
  • Choose the appropriate response strategy to decline an unnecessary or conflicting meeting invitation while maintaining professional relationships
  • Utilize the pre-meeting checklist to verify that a proposed meeting meets all five criteria before sending the invitation
Resources
Should You Call That Meeting?

Download a PDF version of this course. PDF | 108 KB

Before You Hit Send Decision Guide (PDF)

Download a quick guide on when to meet, what to write instead of meeting, and how to decline. PDF | 5 KB